There’s a question almost everyone has asked themselves at some point. In a relationship, with a colleague, at the school gate, on the phone with a parent. “Am I the unreasonable one here?” It’s one of the hardest questions to get a straight answer to. Friends are biased toward you. Family is biased depending on…
This is the second in a series demonstrating how AI can help us investigate the systems shaping our world. The first looked outward, at ecosystems and economics, and who pays when natural systems fail. This one looks at something closer to home, that lands in your inbox every day, and asks why we are still…
Does MFA reduce overall risk, or does it merely shift liability while creating new points of catastrophic failure? Thoughts with real-world examples of Single Points of Failure.
This article deals with the second of two very emotional subjects and states which whilst are separate conditions/issues are extremely closely related, and in my unqualified non professional opinion, one can lead to the other and can be exploited by abusive people intentionally or unintentionally. The first article covers Trauma Bonding. The Victim Complex At…
This article deals with the first of two very emotional subjects and states which whilst are separate conditions/issues are extremely closely related, and in my unqualified non professional opinion, one can lead to the other and visa-versa. The second article covers Victim Mentality, Saviour and Martyr Complexes. Trauma Bonding Is Your Tightest Friendship Nothing More…
Introduction. A friend recently asked about abuse in relationships, and didn’t know whether they had wandered into abad relationship. So after a discussion with them I pointed out a number of factors that could point to control or manipulation and therefore abuse. The things discussed I decided I’d share with all, this therefore is the…
So many years ago many of you will know I was stalked to the point it affected my mental health and left me in fear of violence being perpetrated against me. Now I recently had someone use the excuse “I didn’t want to be accused of stalking you” as a reason not to communicate, and…
It’s been a while since I blogged, but a recent experience alerted me to what Gas Lighting actually means, and that over the years I have been subjected to Gas lighting on more than one occasion, though in later years it seems to be getting more and more common. The official definition is: Gaslighting is a…
Its been a long while since I’ve posted anything, but in todays news how many of you out there are on Facebook and how many of you like to respond to these little gems: Or perhaps statuses that ask you to cut/paste in your answers: Thursday Night fun… Six names. Real Name: Michelle Sullivan Soap…
Well all those know me, know I do not have tolerance for Political parties or Political grandstanding however, in the case of the 2013 Maltese Elections it is time I waded in with my 2 cents. This is not a political statement for either side, because to be honest, if I were voting I wouldn’t…
Well almost two years on but the abuse I suffered at the hands of my ex (Katie Crothers) is still affecting my life in a negative way.. Seems no matter what I do there is always someone that knows her, there is always someone that wants to know me that I have the suspicion is…